Well studying is something anyone in school would be doing so it’s a nice go-to excuse for hanging out haha

So your best guy friend is only your friend? I can’t say you should go for the new guy because he has a girlfriend and it wouldn’t be right to go after him. You should still try to be his friend, just don’t push anything. Maybe the guy and the girl will break up, then you can tell him he’s caught your eye.

You can ask him to go to the movies with you and a group of friends. Then if you want it to just be the two of you, say the friends bailed but you still want to go with him. You can try that or invite him to study but end up playing video games or just talking? Just be yourself around him, ask him to hang out when you can and the rest will fall into place.

Writing your feelings down would be one way to tell her. That way you can sit down and think about exactly what you want to tell her. What you want is intimate, have you thought about what she wants? I’m not saying you shouldn’t tell her your true feelings, but have you imagined how she’s going to react?

I’m really glad things aren’t awkward between you two, even after you told her that you like her but do you think things will be awkward if you tell her every feeling you have? I guess what I’m trying to say is, what are you trying to accomplish by telling her everything? What’s the end goal? If she has her heart set on this other guy, telling her everything right now might just create unnecessary drama. You need to tell her when the time is right. I’m not trying to be a downer, I’m sorry if it seems that way but think about every angle before you take any action.

But yes, if you decide to tell her, I think writing her a letter is a very good idea. I would definitely hand it to her in person. Sorry my response was so long and sorry it took so long to respond. With whatever you decide to do, please keep me updated, I really would like to hear how everything works out. You can always talk to me too if you want more advice. You seem like a very sweet guy, she would be lucky to have you.

You just made my night. Thank you (: Are you the same anon as earlier? Did you want to talk about your day? I’m here if you need me.

I just think everyone deserves to be cared about. It doesn’t matter who you are, if I know you or not, I’ll still care about you. Since chances are the people I’m talking to live too far away for me to give them a hug, the next best thing I can do is talk to them and give them advice if they need it.

I guess sometimes I even care a little too much and it gets in the way of things and it isn’t the best for my mental health but that’s a person issue I have with myself. Sorry I took a while to respond to this, I was out walking my doggies

Anon from last night? Well you have to take chances sometimes. If you ask him who he likes and he says someone other than you, you have two choices. EIther let him know of your feelings or play it cool and say something like “oh I just wanted to make sure it wasn’t me”. Something like that maybe? It really just depends on how you think he’s going to react if he finds out you like him and how much you want him to know that you like him.

Just ask him if he likes anyone. If he says yes and is being a little shy about it, ask him if the person he likes is you. That’s probably the quickest and easiest way to find out if he likes you

I’m sure people still care about you! I care about you! Why would you think otherwise? Have people specifically said they don’t care or are you just assuming?